many married women inadvertently lure their men into adultery

When I tell married women whose husbands are unfaithful to them that I blame them for their husbands unfaithfulness they think am harsh. But many in all my years of counseling, I've observed that many married woman inadvertently lure their men into adultery. How you may ask:

1. Before you got married you were dressing in such a way that it was impossible for him to look elsewhere. Now you're married you dress like an old woman in the village and you expect him to understand that he's married to you, no he won't.  Please start dressing properly if you want to secure your marriage.

2. Before marriage your make up, hair style, finger and toe nails were polished, but now you don't even remember to clean them up and you want him not to look elsewhere. Looking good doesn't cost much, why increase my prayer points when you can save me the trouble of praying for your marriage by cleaning up.

3. Before marriage you were an apostle of home neatness, in fact you trumpeted how it is impossible for you not to keep your house clean. But now you're married, the pot is in the parlor, even to fix the bed sheet is a problem and yet you blame the devil for your husband’s infidelity. Don't you know that neatness attracts, he will definitely go to an apartment where he can drink water and be sure of not contacting a virus.

4. Before marriage you were always calling and sending him texts but now you're married you have stopped. Ahaaaa this is a leeway for that lady to steal him away from you because she will always show concern. Since men go where they are celebrated I am sure you know where he will go.

5. Before marriage you took care of your weight but now it's history. You have added up and unfortunately you're doing nothing about it and you expect him to understand. He will only understand the jaw dropping chic in his office who takes her time to go to gym and watch her weight by been disciplined. Watch your weight, he may not be saying it now but mark my word the day you will catch him with another woman your weight issue will be an alibi which he would use against you.

Tomorrow I will share 5 other major points from my unpublished work on relationship you need to take cognizance of so you can keep your marriage. I am tired of hearing marriages  breaking up. The percentage of marriages breaking up is frightening and I want you to save your own.

Have a blistering day!!!!!